Meeting for the first time, safely

A first date should be about getting to know someone, not worrying. A few habits take care of the worry so you can enjoy the conversation.

Choose the place

Pick a busy public place you know, like a coffee shop or a restaurant at lunchtime. Daytime and a set length (“let's get coffee for an hour”) take the pressure off both of you.

Make your own way

Get there and home on your own. Driving yourself, taking transit or using a rideshare means you can leave whenever you like, and you don't need to share your address before you're ready.

Tell someone

Before you go:

• Send a friend who you're meeting, where, and when you expect to be done.
• Agree to check in with them afterward.
• Keep your phone charged.

Trust yourself

Stay in control of your drink and how much you drink. If something feels off, trust that feeling: you never owe anyone more of your time, and it's fine to leave politely.

If something goes wrong

If someone makes you uncomfortable before or after you meet, use “Report or block” in the app. If you ever feel in danger, call 911.